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Thursday, December 24th, 2009 02:54 pm
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Well I am back in the Carpathia, having seen [livejournal.com profile] ellefurtle off from King's Cross station on her epic voyage to Edinburgh for Christmas with the clan. I shall pop out in about an hour to buy a pint of either M&S or Waitrose ready-made custard as the whim takes me, and possibly a bottle of fruit cider. I shall then return here, batten down the hatches and settle down to my solitary Christmas.

I've mentioned to a number of people that I shall be on my own over Christmas and many of them have looked back blankly; it doesn't register with them initially. Once it sinks in, I either have that person trying to organise my time for me, expressing sadness or surprise. I'm not sure why - I am really, really looking forward to some ME time. My first choice would have been [livejournal.com profile] ellefurtle and me quietly home together over the festive period, but since that wasn't to be, I have arranged a perfectly acceptable and stress-free alternative. As of now and until around 5pm on Sunday afternoon, I have no-one to please other than myself and that hasn't happened for one reason or another for many years. If you're one of the people reading this, by the way, you are not one of the intrepid Bryan organisers, they are all people from the office who then proceeded to grumble about the things they would have to do over the holiday period that they really didn't feel like doing. See me smile inwardly while nodding in sympathy at this.

I have had offers to visit friends and some friends may be popping around on Boxing Day - not sure, yet. I shall see how that all pans out, bu it's nice to have choices.

Mostly I intend to listen to a little music, watch a little telly, do some reading, drawing and writing. I have not decided how much of each of those activities, or in which order, I shall do. Maybe none, maybe lots: the choice is mine.

After [livejournal.com profile] ellefurtle had caught her train, I made my way down to the West End for a look around. It is very mild all of a sudden and I was soon too hot. The snow in the centre has all gone long since, and even around here, in Whetstone, only the most treacherous of wet, compacted ice remains. That's another reason to not venture out, other than perhaps for a pint tomorrow lunchtime.

Right. Off to investigate a bite of lunch, I think. Have a Cool Yule, the lot of you.

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Date: 2009-12-24 03:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] furzepig.livejournal.com
Have a good one!

As to Xmas alone, it's pretty much the norm for me. As you say, your time's your own with no bickering and no other-people's-plans to restrict what you want to do or when. Just peace and quiet, and a mountain of tasty foods.

This year I was a bit wary after the rubbish time I had last year (in hospital), but I think that was mostly over-sensitivity on my part. Plus I won't be on my own the whole time.

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Date: 2009-12-24 03:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] littleonionz.livejournal.com
Well I'm loving the kids, man, pets Christmas thang however; I see the appeal of writing, painting, chilling on one's tod.

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Date: 2009-12-24 03:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pax-draconis.livejournal.com
Have a good one, Bry. Don't seem to have seen much of you this year - must rectify that.

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Date: 2009-12-24 03:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fractalgeek.livejournal.com
If we do happen across each other, it would be delightful to share some Wassail, but I won't try and organise you. Enjoy!

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Date: 2009-12-24 04:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bluesman.livejournal.com
I had Christmases alone for eleven years, between marriages. Don't remember ever feeling lonely or depressed about it, so, good for you. I wouldn't like it now, though: I'm spoilt!

You may receive a transatlantic call tomorrow, young sir, for no reason whatsoever.

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Date: 2009-12-24 05:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] caffeine-fairy.livejournal.com
I shall raise a glass to you and doing what you darn well feel like at Xmas - good for you!

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Date: 2009-12-24 08:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladkyis.livejournal.com
Mr M and I commented that now DD has started the process of buying a house along the street we might be able to have a Christmas together - the first for many years next Christmas. This year we still have DGD and the cat so I will be escaping to puterland several times tomorrow. Have a peaceful day.

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Date: 2009-12-24 08:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evil-chalkie.livejournal.com
HAve a good one Bry! Must catch up in the new year

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Date: 2009-12-25 09:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] caddyman.livejournal.com
Indeedy yes. Have a splendid day the pair of you and we will catch up at some point early in 2010, I hope!

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Date: 2009-12-25 09:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] caddyman.livejournal.com
I should prefer to have La Furtle here natch, but as a second choice, being on me own is fine. Have a spiffy one, and if you do call, remember that Dr Who is on here at 6pm - 7pm. I shall have the grump if I am disturbed!

I appear to have mislaid your number, BTW...

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